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Sisters Before Misters, So How About Banking Sisters?
Okay, me and my squad—we share everything. All things significant and insignificant, from clothes and chatter to yes, even our views on Taylor Swift’s latest rerelease (if it ain’t Reputation, I’m chowing down on my hat!). But say, how about we take this sharing business to the bank? Can we, should we, set up a joint bank account?
Now, the thought isn’t entirely original. Thanks to a TikTok video that’s been going around where the user boldly declares that she splits her fortunes with her best mate. Shocking, innit? Now, I’m no stranger to financial fusion—I mean, lovebirds do it—but bank buddies? Sounds mind-blowing, even by our standards. But heck, considering the Venmo hassles we endure for rent, food deliveries, and those salvation-bringing Starbucks runs, this seemingly odd idea could possibly redefine convenience, right? Or not?
When Friendship Crosses Over Inot Joint Banking
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The Dos and Don’ts of Splitting a Bank Account With Your BFF
Right, before we get excited about shared banking, let’s consider the pros and cons, shall we? Jordan Gilberti, a financial intellect from Facet, chips in with some insights.
On the positive side, this arrangement promises to be convenient and a good dress rehearsal for those planning to merge their wealth with their partner someday. After all, friendships are all about trust and if you can trust your friend with your deepest secrets, you might as well trust them with your financial ones too, right? Added bonus? It could teach you a thing or two about frugality since you’d want to avoid shameful impulse buys revealing your poor judgment to your accomplice!
And yet, here we hit a snag. Things aren’t always quite so rosy, and Gilberti and Michelle Winterfield of the expense-sharing app Tandem alike warn of potential pitfalls. Noticed how close friendships can sour sometimes? Worst case scenario—they might nick off with your precious funds. Duck for cover, folks!
And that’s not all. Let’s say your friend has expensive tastes. “Eh dearie, the ‘Louis V.’ was just too tempting, so I simply had to dip into our stash.” Chills, right? Or, what if she’s richer and you start feeling the social pressure, LOL. Tricky stuff, this.
Fancy Trying Out Joint Banking With Your Pal? Set Some Ground Rules
If, in spite of all this, the idea of a joint account still appeals to you, Gilberti offers a safer alternative. Start small by opening an account exclusively for a shared goal, say, a weekend away. If things go well, you can then extend the account for other day-to-day activities. But remember, clear communication always comes first. Discuss and agree on contributions, frequency, and fair game for the account, and do allocate category budgets.
Winterfield suggests another safety pinch – drop a minuscule portion of your earnings into the joint account to keep your financial independence intact. After all, you do want to have some change left for a rainy day, right?
The Bottom Line
Although the thought of having a joint bank account with your BFF comes with its own allure, Gilberti warns that the potential negatives usually overshadow the plus points. There’s a lot that could go wrong, with differing financial backgrounds, goals, and spending habits thrown in the mix. So, the safest move, folks, is to stash most of your wealth—including your emergency fund—in a separate account, which is your private fortress.
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